How to gain Confidence

The mind believe it or not is a very powerful weapon, and one that each of us needs to learn how to control. One of the ways is to increase our personal confidence. Confidences in you ability to learn and improve will make an amazing difference to your success.

What is confidence?

Confidence is the quality that enables us to judge our own value, we have the knowledge of the things that we are really capable of, and at the same time it gives us the desire to reach them.

If you are convinced that you can't learn something, then you have already lost the battle. If you tell yourself that if other people can do it, then so can you, this is a sign that you are on the way to success, you have to consistently think about what you can do rather than what you cannot.

The first step in this process is to take stock of yourself, your life and your dreams. If you don't have any dreams then you need to spend time deciding what you want to do with your life, and if you should be changing anything to make this happen. We only get one chance of life and everyone should make the best of it. There is no need for grand gestures, it can be as simple as getting the most pleasure from your friends and family, at the end of the day most people find that this is what matters the most.

Next you have to set yourself goals both large and small. It's okay to read up on something, but you need to put theory into practice, many people fall into the trap of lots of talk, but not much action. With everything you do you need to try and make sure that there is a measurable outcome that you can identify as a target, and can be seen to achievable. It's no use of having a goal of being a jockey if you are over 6ft fall! On the other hand you could learn to ride and aim to own a horse of your own, and all the pleasure that would bring you.

Set yourself small goals on the way to your main ambition. Review your small goals on a regular basis and the next goal should always be just a little bit harder so that you are stretched but it is still within reach.


It is no good setting a goal and forgetting about it. The goal has to be consistently worked at, by doing a little at a time but on a regular basis you suddenly find you have achieved your aim, and what a feeling that is!

Create yourself a small mantra and recite it to yourself on a regular basis, for example what about "I will be the best that I can be" What could be better than being the best you could be, your powerful mind will convert this into a positive thought and who knows what you could go on to achieve.

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